"...they hold on to hurts and never get over them.
instead of releasing their pain through forgiveness, they rehearse it over and over in their minds.
some resentment-driven people "clam up" and internalise their anger, while others "blow up" and explode it onto others.
both responses are unhealthy and unhelpful.
resentment always hurts you more than it does the person u resent.
while ur offender has probably forgotten the offence and gone on with life, u continue to stew in ur pain, perpetuating the past.
those who have hurt u in e past cant continue to hurt u now unless u hold on to the pain thru resentment."
i stole this from someone else's blog again. anyway, i was just composing an entry of chinese prose yest n it so happen that the contents coincide in certain areas.
actually wanted to post it out but it doesn't seem to fit into the blogging style of this blog. mayb i'll go restart OCTOPOOSE.com for this kinda stuffs.
the difference was tt it could have been easier. though it wasn't too big a gap. the past compared to the present is all but a small fraction.
