ppl judge.

they do.

all the time n everyday of their lives.

while i was doing the lingerie washing today, i realise tt sometimes, we may be too quick to judge others on their behaviour just cos it doesn't match up to our, or the society's moral expectations. i noe many of us say we dun judge but even the look of distaste at other ppl's choices is a form of judgement in itself.

i know of others who had to go through wat most of us din at our age. some we pity, some we just treat as gossip, but in the end what shld really be of concern is how we failed to emphatise with them n sympathy is just not sufficient.

aft a really long time, i realise tt i m nt the kind of person tt can truly emphatise beyond sympathy if i have nv been through the ordeal myself. and in my opinion, it is kinda tragic cos i wld then have to go thru many sadness to become a strong shoulder for others in need to lean on.

and i do hope tt aft i publish this entry, i would b more careful when others become a topic as it is more often a recipe for disaster than not.